Identity Crisis - Srijaya Char
Skipping Stones. Jan/Feb2004, Vol. 16 Issue 1, p10-10. 1p.
The article focuses on the importance of a name and the case of Indian women in this context. In India it is common to hear husbands not addressing their wives by their given names. It was a very strange practice, especially for women. Parents would give a girl-child a name. She'd live with that name until she got married. She would be married off at the age of 13 or 14. My grandmother got married when she was just nine and from that day on she lost her name. In many households, if the bridegroom's family thought it fit to change the name of the bride, they would do so without even asking her permission.